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How To Care For Elderly Parents

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If you’re caring for a loved one, it’s important you know how you can best support them.

Caring for anyone is a big responsibility that can be very rewarding but comes with certain challenges, so it’s important that you understand exactly what home care is likely to entail. There are numerous elderly care websites which contain great information about caring for elderly people, people with dementia, and people living with disabilities and other medical conditions. Some aspects of providing good care at home come down to simple common sense, but you may have questions about things such as how to make home adaptations, what sort of meals you should be preparing, and where you might be able to go for a day trip.

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Establish a routine

Routines help you and your parents establish an expected way in which things will be done.

Routines are great because they help both you and your parents establish an expected way in which things will be done. However, when setting routines, it’s important to make sure that your loved one doesn’t feel like you’re running their life for them, but rather that they control over what they want to do and when they want to do it. You should also make suggestions and voice concerns whenever necessary, as you alone know your own capabilities and your limitations.

It can be helpful to establish routines with:

 

  • Getting up and going to bed
  • Meals
  • Medication
  • Going for a walk
  • Household chores
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    Seek medical advice

    If your parent is living with a medical condition, they may have complex care needs.

    If your parent(s) is living with a specific medical condition or age-related frailty and you’re planning to be their caregiver, you should ensure you’re aware of all the health risks they face and all the correct procedures for helping them to manage their condition.

    Arrange a chat with their GP to find out how their care needs are affected by their condition, and use information available on the NHS website to help steer your care decisions.

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    Make time for your own health

    It’s easy to spend so much time caring for loved ones that you forget to focus on your own health.
    Ensuring you stay physically and mentally healthy is important for a number of reasons, not least because you’re not going to be able to look after others properly if you yourself are experiencing health problems. Every single flight attendant in the world will tell you that you should always make sure your own well-being is secure before turning your attention to those around you, and that same principle applies to health and social care.
    A key part of maintaining your physical and mental health is not overdoing it, and at Helping Hands, we have both visiting and live-in options available for elderly care; ideal for those times when you find yourself needing a break from caregiving:

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    Visiting elderly care
    Having a professional visiting carer step in to cover your responsibilities can make a world of difference, both to you and the person you’re looking after.
    A new carer offers friendly companionship and gives your loved one the chance to spend time with someone different
    A visiting carer allows you, or the regular caregiver, to take a well-earned rest from your normal responsibilities and gives you time to recuperate
    As well as the expert support of your fully-trained carer, you’ll also benefit from ongoing care advice from your local Helping Hands care team
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    Live-in elderly care
    We are able to offer short-term respite care and 24/7 assistance from a live-in carer who will come and live in your loved one’s home while you take a break.
    With a live-in carer, you will benefit from the round-the-clock support and companionship offered by having a carer in your home
    A live-in carer will enable you to get the most out of life and continue doing the things you really enjoy
    We know that having a carer move into your home is a big step for you to take, which is why we’ll help you find someone who shares your interests and personality
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    Get in touch with the elderly care experts at Helping Hands

    At Helping Hands, we’ve got over 30 years’ experience in providing transformative support to people in the comforting, familiar surroundings of their own homes, so it’s safe to say we’re care industry experts. Follow the steps below to arrange help with elderly care today.

    Speak to our team

    Call our team of experts to talk through your options and any questions you may have

    Free home care assessment

    Your local Helping Hands manager will visit you to discuss your care requirements

    Find your carer

    We’ll help to match you with a carer who meets your preferences and has the right skills

    Call us now to arrange live-in care
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    Carer’s Allowance

    You should research your eligibility for financial aid if you’re a caregiver.

    If you work 35 hours a week or more, you may qualify for Carer’s Allowance which equates to £67.60 per week and is usually paid every four weeks. Additionally, caregivers working 20 hours a week or more might be eligible for National Insurance credits, and there are numerous other means-tested benefits available which are worth investigating.

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    A fully regulated home care provider ​

    Here at Helping Hands, our service is regulated by the Care Quality Commission (CQC) and the Care Inspectorate Wales (CIW)​

    This means we need to consistently meet high standards and are monitored by our regulators.​

    ​Why is being a regulated care provider important?​

    Independent inspections of our service, giving you peace of mind​
    Fully vetted, high-quality carers
    Guaranteed training and development for our staff
    Page reviewed by Carole Kerton-Church, Regional Clinical Lead, on July 25, 2024

    How we wrote this page


    This page has been produced referencing key insights and data from external experts, trusted medical sources and our team of in-house specialists. We have worked hard to ensure that all information is as accurate as possible and reflects current consensus at the time of writing and reviewing.